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First, there’s the blowjob. Next, the random positions. Finally, the inevitable face squirt.
Though there are slight variations, such as the occasional cunnilingus or the use of kinky props, the aforementioned sequence is too often the typical scenario of pornographic films.
Made to appeal to male audiences, most mainstream porn aims to show off beautiful women engaging in explicit activities, with little attention paid to intimacy between the participants. Often, the guy does not even need to be fit or attractive, so long as he has an adequate penis. Hello, Ron Jeremy.
However, many women also enjoy viewing erotic material.
About 76 percent of women view porn to enhance their sex lives, a 10 percent increase from last year, according to a study conducted by the Web site The English Netmums.
Though some females take pleasure in male-minded pornography, others may find it uncomfortable and degrading.
A few of my friends complain it’s hard to find films that show actual chemistry between the participants and don’t end with the man ejaculating in the woman’s eye. They want porn that has more realistic settings and deeper connections.
Fortunately, there is a decent selection of Web sites specifically created to attract female audiences. Porn for women sites offer a selection of erotic pictures, stories and videos specially catered to be pleasing for them.
Online material, such as Kara’s Porn for Women, feature pictures of chiseled “hunks” who pose shirtless or nude in various positions. There are also literotica stories, pictures and video clips that contain scenarios of the men worshipping the woman’s body and specifically focusing on her desires, including a lot clitoris licking. For ladies who enjoy watching erotica with their partner, the site also has a special section dedicated to intimate couples.
Do not be fooled by the romantic scenarios, though. Some of films contain group sex, BDSM, anal and other hardcore imagery, just as mainstream porn does.
You can still find variations of porn for women on regular sites. Some free porn Web sites, such a youporn.com, contain “romance” or “kissing” categories.
If you are just starting to dabble in erotic material, literotica is a great place to start. The sexual details are explicit, but still allow some imagination for personal preferences. Next, look for pictures that depict what you like and when you think you are ready, watch a video from a porn for women site. It might also help to try masturbating to the imagery, so that you can easily figure out what turns you on visually.
Nothing is hotter than porn with a feminine touch.
Jeanetta Bradley can be reached at
sexcolumnist@theorion.com
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