2008 Woodie Awards
Getting to know you, getting to hope you like me
Proper Netiquette for message board newbies
By: Erin Lesher
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So, no fear, my new friend! Entering the world of Internet message boards is as easy as a double click of your mouse. The first question you might want to ask yourself when looking for a message board community is, "What interests me?" Once you answer that question, the next step you should probably take is logging on to a search engine such as Google or Lycos. By typing in the subject of your interest along with the words "message board" you will be well on your way to receiving the feedback you are searching for.
After researching your results and finding a suitable message board comes the most important step: patience. Yes, good old-fashioned patience. Jumping right into a message board head first can make for a disastrous first impression. That is why all newbies should master the art of lurking. (Lost on what lurking is? This glossary for message board slang should help you out.) By strictly reading threads without posting, a newcomer can quickly grasp the flow of the board, learning what is appropriate and what is not, and the general mood and atmosphere of the board. New board members should also read the board FAQ (frequently asked questions) before asking anything that might be perceived as lazy or stupid by the board elders.
Once a lurker feels comfortable and familiar enough with the board they can begin posting. However, they should be reminded that going overboard will not make them any friends. Posts should be limited, well thought out and proofread. No one wants to struggle through your illegible ramblings, and you are likely to get flamed if you post anything of such a nature. Newbies should also be respectful of the natives. Treat your board moderators and administrators with respect. They help run the board for your enjoyment. Poor behavior and breaking board rules can lead to your banishment.
Like junior high, being the new kid on the block can be tough.
Often times
posters will overlook the new people in favor of those they
already
know and have grown to like and respect. But, with a little effort and
a few good posts, everyone is eventually noticed. So, if no one
responds
to your initial posts, do not get discouraged. After all, it probably
has
even happened to Bill Gates a few times.